Bereavement
National Bereavement Service
The National Bereavement Service website
Every bereavement is different and there are different steps to take, depending on the circumstances of your bereavement. The National Bereavement Service (NBS) provides bespoke practical and emotional bereavement support, from finding a reliable funeral director and guiding you through the legal side of bereavement to signposting for counselling for those coping with grief and mourning.
Get help today with their free services via their helpline or contact form.
Helpline: 0800 0246 121
Their core hours are Monday - Friday 9am - 6pm, Saturday 10am - 2pm. If these times don't suit your circumstances, you can let them know and they will contact you to arrange a more suitable time.
There is also a live chat function on their website.
Support After Suicide Service
Swindon and Wiltshire Support After Suicide Service
Rethink offer support to anyone affected or bereaved by suicide in Swindon and Wiltshire. Their core opening hours are 9am - 5pm, Monday - Friday. For those who require support during the evening or weekends as a result of day time commitments, they provide support up to 8pm.
They provide 1:1 support through face-to-face, online, telephone or WhatsApp; whatever suits your needs best.
To make a initial referral or to refer yourself you can complete this referral form. Alternatively, you can call the Wiltshire Access Service on 08082 803528 who will take your referral information or email sandwsupportaftersuicide@rethink.org.
Steps To Take
When a person passes away, there are three things that must be done in the first few days:
- A medical certificate must be obtained from the GP or hospital doctor (this is necessary to register the death).
- The death must be registered within 5 days (8 days in Scotland). You will then receive the necessary documents for the funeral.
- The funeral arrangements need to be made.
Registering the Death
A death must be registered within 5 days.
If the death has been reported to the coroner they must give permission before registering the death.
You can register the death if you are a relative, a witness to the death, a hospital administrator or the person making the arrangements with the funeral directors.
You can use the Register a Death’ page on the gov.uk website that will guide you through the process.
Medical Certificate
A Medical Certificate must be issued by the deceased's GP if they died in the community or a hospital doctor if they died in hospital.
The GP will be notified by the attending healthcare party, or you can contact the surgery to notify them yourself.
The surgery will contact the Medical Examiner and issue a Medical Certificate of Cause of Death and email it directly to the Registration Office.
We will endeavour to let you know when it has been sent and to expect contact from them.
Funeral Arrangements
After you have registered the death, you will get a certificate for burial or cremation which you will need before a funeral can take place.
The funeral can usually only take place after the death is registered. Most people use a funeral director, though you can arrange a funeral yourself.
Choose a funeral director who is a member of one of the following:
These organisations have a code of practice and must give you a price list when asked.
Funeral costs can include:
- Funeral director fees.
- Disbursements or third-party costs, such as crematorium or cemetery fees, or a newspaper announcement.
- Local authority burial or cremation fees.
The British Humanist Society can help with non-religious funerals.
If you get certain benefits and need help paying for the funeral, you can get a Funeral Expenses Payment.
If you want to arrange the funeral yourself, you will need to contact Wiltshire Council Cemetaries and Burial Service by calling 0300 456 0100. Visit The Natural Dealth Centre website for further information on arranging a funeral yourself.
Bereavement Support
Please see below some helpful websites for bereavement support:
Telephone: 0800 634 9494
Provides support and advice to people on what they need to do after a death. It has lots of practical support and information around topics like registering a death, probate and legal issues.
Helps families, carers and friends find services and information following a loss.
Telephone: 08001 814118
Offers support for carers across Wiltshire and can offer support and advice even after your caring role changes.
Telephone: 08088 081677
Support, advice and information for children, young people and adults when someone dies. They offer face-to-face, telephone, email and website support.
Telephone: 116 123
Confidential support for anyone in a crisis: Samaritans will listen to you at any time of day or night. They are not there only for people who are feeling suicidal. They are there for anyone in distress.
SOBS (Survivors of Bereavement by Suicide)
Telephone: 0300 111 5065
SOBS help overcome the isolation experienced by people who have been bereaved by suicide.
Telephone: 0800 282 986
Befriending and emotional support for anyone affected by the death of a child, teenager or young adult.
Telephone: 03451 232304
Provide support for parents following the death of a child at any age.
National bereavement helpline: 0800 448 0800
Sudden bereavement helpline: 0800 2600 400
Help people suffering from grief in the UK.
The Royal United Hospital have a booklet with information for bereaved family and friends.
Hospice Support
There are a number of hospices in Wiltshire who offer bereavement services to families known to them:
Telephone: 01225 722988
Telephone: 01672 512915
Telephone: 01722 425113
The Living Well Team
Our Living Well Team are available to support you. They will visit you, listen to you and encourage you to find groups and activities to help you find a sense of purpose following your loss. Patients are able to refer themselves to the team directly by contacting 01249 462775 and choosing option 3 for additional support.